Daniel is (as you might imagine) a totally different story. The night we had our family meeting to tell him about our move he cried and cried. He kept saying, "I don't want to move. What about my friends?" We told him that we might have a big enough yard to get a dog in Utah. Daniel informed me that he no longer wanted a dog, he just wanted to stay where we were. (Daniel has wanted a dog for so long that those words just broke my heart! Of course he has gone back on that now and keeps trying to tell us which kind we'll get. Mostly he picks Dalmatian, or bulldogs. Neither are the type we want to get.) Next he gave us the silent treatment. We decided we needed ice cream to smooth things over, but we practically had to carry him out to the car. (Most of us in our family can be bought with ice cream.) He didn't speak on the way there. He finally started talking a few words when we dished up. We told him that Utah is the ice cream capitol of the world and he seemed to like that idea. We told him about all of the fun things to see and do in Utah. We reminded him that we would get to live closer to grandparents and cousins. Daniel suggested that we stay in our house and just let the extended family move closer to us. We promised Daniel that we'd get addresses from his friends to write letters to. Nathan and I told him that we'd both moved when we were his age and about all of the new friends we'd made. Daniel is still very worried about starting at a new school. He cried that he couldn't cut the trees out that I'd painted in his bedroom to bring with us. He also wanted to bring the plum, pear, and peach trees from the backyard. We tried to assure him that we'd let him pick out a tree to plant when we find a new house.
I don't know how much Caleb has understood about the move. Sometimes he got upset when we packed up boxes. He kept telling everyone he would find a new house in Utah. Mostly, I think Caleb was upset because all of this moving and packing stuff really messed up most of our routines. He's been very grumpy.
4 comments:
Oh my goodness. This post just about broke my heart, so I can't imagine how you got through it as the mommy. I hope things are settling down and starting to fall into place for you guys!
It's so hard to leave the place you've made home. I hope that things get better and your kids love the new area and being closer to family.
Move out to Herriman and live by us! It'll be good to have you guys back in the same time zone.
Mike Weist
Holy cow!! So we go on vacation (which happens to be Utah) and I finally get caught up and read this!! i'm really, really excited for you. Where are you moving to? If you don't want to post it, you can email it to me at hermanahenry@yahoo.com. I totally get the rapid pace of moving, though. Good and bad, I'm sure you know what I mean. I was just thinking, too, about how last 4th we were still living in Utah and had NO IDEA we were moving at the time.
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